There are many books, manuals and professionals who have talked about the different positions that must be adopted during sexual intercourse in order to reach orgasm, especially in the case of women. Many attribute this difficulty to psychological blocks, while others believe that this is due to a poor quality of erotic practice . But what if it was known that everything is due to the shape of the vulva?
According to a recent study, published in the Clinical Anatomy , the anatomy of each woman seems to be the one that originates the difference, and the clitoris is the structure mainly involved. If it is at a distance equal to or less than 2.5 centimeters from the urinary tract , these women will be able to reach orgasm through intercourse, or penetration. However, if the distance is greater, it is unlikely that you will be able to climax if you do not have direct stimulation of this genital area.
Why is the distance between the clitoris and the urinary tract so influential? Because the closer you are, the more stimulation you will receive at the time of penetration. If it is further away, it will not be touched with the same intensity.
In any case, it must be made clear that although orgasm is not achieved through intercourse, this does not prevent being able to enjoy full and completely satisfactory sexual relations. The anatomy of each woman is not an impediment, but rather a different discovery that must learn to know itself to know how to enjoy it to the fullest.
A recommendation would be to play a game consisting of self-exploration and self-knowledge . In this case, the couple would be deprived of friction or caresses at the genital level and all kinds of touching would be encouraged in the rest of the body, in order to discover other places that trigger as much or more pleasure than those already known. Sometimes we focus too much on what is already known and we neglect the wide range of sensations that the largest organ we have, the skin, provides us.
Raquel Graña writes in Intimasconexiones.com