LivingKindness, the most important value parents want to teach...

Kindness, the most important value parents want to teach their children

Parenting is more than just providing, caring for, and making sure our children are healthy. Also, it is educating and raising those little people who will be adults tomorrow, and an important part of this is teaching them values and giving them important life lessons.

While there is a very long list of things that we want our children to learn and be, according to a recent survey, most parents believe that there is one value that is very important for our children to learn: kindness .

Through the Parents website, more than 1,200 mothers and fathers responded to a survey about what they wanted for their children, in particular emotional education tools that could help them both now and in the future.

According to the results of this survey, 73% of parents consider kindness as the value they most hope to cultivate in their children , considering it even more important than other factors such as intelligence, individuality or work ethic.

Seeing their children being happy and kind to others seems to be more important to today’s parents, compared to previous generations, who were focused on propelling their children to certain traditional successes.

As we have seen in recent years, parenthood is more focused on raising happy children , and part of achieving this is teaching them to be kind to others and thus end problems that have been present for decades, such as racism and violence. discrimination, bullying or social injustices.

Of the mothers surveyed, 70% believe that the key to raising people who are kind is by example , so they go out of their way to donate to charities or take small actions that can help their community.

Finally, they consider that despite the current difficulties and restrictions derived from the pandemic, their children have managed to acquire and develop emotional skills that in other circumstances they might not have learned in such a practical way, such as resilience and gratitude.

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