Gender roles have definitely changed the meaning of “being a dad.” If previously the common thing was to see them totally focused on their work and estranged from their children, today the dynamics is very different . In fact, according to a study, current parents spend three times more time with their children, compared to previous generations.
For this reason, and because we believe that it is positive to recognize the great changes that this role has had throughout history, this Father’s Day we dedicate a tribute to all those involved and loving parents .
Being a dad, a life changing experience
Just as women completely change our lives to become mothers, the same happens with men when they become fathers. And it is that having a child (or more) is not just anything, it is a momentous event .
Probably, before being a father you had an idea about how you would be, and now that you have become one, you will know if it has been fulfilled or you are different from what you imagined. But without a doubt, you are not the same person as before .
Also, you may have found yourself with the surprise that you do many things that you said you would never do when you had children, and you understand then that it is not only wise to change your mind, but also fathers and mothers .
But although becoming a parent has made you realize how much you can change, it has undoubtedly also revealed something you have never experienced before: that immense love for your children and those actions that you do for and for them. For this reason, and because it is a special day, today we celebrate that you are an active parent in raising your children .
To you, who are an involved and loving father
First of all: thank you . Because like mom, you deserve recognition for the work you do every day by being present and actively both in the care and upbringing of your little ones.
Some people say that we should not “applaud” them when they do things that are appropriate to their role as fathers, because they are things that mothers do every day. But I think it is nice that from time to time what they do is recognized, it is a work full of love .
In addition, we have to remember that it is not only about congratulating them for being loving parents , but also, it is a time to remember again the benefits of being an egalitarian, involved and attached father towards their children.
For example, being a parent who is not only present, but also involved, helps children better cope with stress and frustration, as well as be more confident and have a better overall psychological adjustment. In short, that you also get involved in their upbringing and care, makes your child happier, fuller and more secure .
So congratulations dad, because being an involved and loving father, you benefit your children and help them have better emotional health. Because definitely, although mom may be what they need the most during their first months, dad is also a fundamental pillar in their development .
Therefore, on this day and all the others, from the Babies and More team we recognize your precious work as a dad, and we wish you a happy Father’s Day , in the company of the people you love the most.
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