Those of us who have small children at home know that having an impeccable and magazine-worthy house 24/7 is practically… impossible. And it is that although we strive to be organized and put into practice good strategies to maintain order at home, the truth is that as long as there are babies or small children at home, there will be times when it seems that a hurricane passed through our living room or dining room .
However, on social networks it is common to find retouched or posed photos, which show a somewhat idealized vision of life with children, in which apparently chaos does not exist and making many families feel that they are not doing things right.
For this reason, a mother decided to start a thread on Twitter, in which mothers and fathers share photos of their homes, showing the reality of living with babies and young children.
” Can we start a realistic thread of photos of mothers and fathers? Without aesthetic filters, without staging: what does the room you are in RIGHT NOW look like? “, has been how the thread has been started by Amanda, a mother of 28 years.
To give an example, she has published a photograph of her bathroom, mentioning that she has days in these conditions because she does not have enough energy to tidy it up: ” It’s not that bad, but it feels good to know that other families aren’t perfect either. I’m tired of expectations .” unreal about keeping a spotless house, home-cooked meals every day, and somehow entertaining the kids too .”
Here’s my bathroom, and it’s been like this for days. I just have no energy to clean up. It’s not too bad, but it feels better knowing others aren’t perfect too. I’m tired of unrealistic expectations to keep a spotless home, home cooked meals every day & somehow entertain kids pic.twitter.com/jm9ncespGW
— amanda 𓍊𓋼𓍊𓋼𓍊 (@alkellzz) February 27, 2022
Seeing Amanda’s proposal and the photograph of her bathroom, mothers and fathers began to share their own photos , showing that precious chaos that is present when there are children at home.
Notice how there are no legos on the lego table 🙈 pic.twitter.com/w2Vk40bRno
— Kerry Ruckdashel (@ruckdashelmama) February 27, 2022
Notice how there are no Legos on the Lego table.
The island always fills up even when we clean it off each day. And for some reason the kids have a NEED to pull out all the throw blankets and throw all the throw pillows onto the floor 😂 pic.twitter.com/0QaZnUGGHY
— Lori Ann Potter (@LoriAnn_Potter) February 27, 2022
The island is always full of things even if we clean it every day. And for some reason the children have the NEED to take out all the blankets and put all the cushions and pillows on the floor.
i’m not at home, but this is a picture i took over the weekend. welcome to my chaos 😆 pic.twitter.com/g5fvamtro9
— g in CLE, PE (@g_in_cle) February 28, 2022
I’m not home but I took this picture over the weekend. Welcome to my chaos.
every surface of my house is always covered in train tracks. immediately after we pick them up they remanifest pic.twitter.com/aLHQz1DGmA
— Adriana Porter Felt (@__apf__) February 28, 2022
Every surface of my house is always covered in train tracks. Immediately after lifting them they manifest again.
This is the usual in my house . Toys everywhere and a Dead plant because of tiny grabby hands 🙃 pic.twitter.com/gaQHxnU1IR
— Sadie. (@AspenKatesmama) February 28, 2022
This is the usual in my house. Toys everywhere and a dead plant from little hands grabbing everything.
Still have the Christmas tree up 😂 and use everything for clean laundry. pic.twitter.com/QN8QQgNbRq
— Jess (@CareBoogaBear) February 27, 2022
We still have the Christmas tree up, and we put clean clothes on everything.
my living room currently lmao and it’s usually much worse by the end of the day every day pic.twitter.com/s6oM2NU9D1
— abby 🌙 (@craycraymer) February 27, 2022
My living room right now lol it’s usually much worse at the end of the day, every day.
That’s chalk on my son’s bedroom walls. That’s the price of 5 min of silence. 😂 pic.twitter.com/qNpUfjfYHM
— Vanessa Avila (@VLonghorn07) February 27, 2022
That on the wall in my son’s room is chalk. That’s the price of five minutes of silence.
Between the dogs and the toddler. It’s never clean. 😂 pic.twitter.com/4au9b28h1Q
— lexie (@lexiemamaa_) February 28, 2022
Between the dogs and the little boy. It’s never clean.
In addition to the photographs, many mothers have commented that seeing the images of other houses and realizing that they look similar to theirs helps them to see that they are not doing so badly, but above all to know that they are not alone:
this thread makes me feel better knowing i’m not alone ❤️ sometimes it’s hard to forget we don’t always have to have it together. pic.twitter.com/Eef37AAIfS
— 𝑘𝑟𝑖𝑠𝑡𝑖𝑛♡ (@kloreneong) February 27, 2022
This thread makes me feel better knowing I’m not alone. Sometimes it’s hard to forget that we don’t need to always have everything in order.
On the other hand, there were other parents who humorously reminded us that this chaos is only temporary, and others who reaffirmed what many of us know and understand: it is a normal part of life with babies and young children.
I’m just used to it at this point. It isn’t forever – that’s what I keep telling myself lol! pic.twitter.com/FDGxKAzCDm
— Brooke Shirakawa (@BrookeShirakawa) February 27, 2022
At this point I’m used to it. It’s not forever, is what I keep telling myself.
Loving this thread. Real homes. Real lives. Real messes. Real love. pic.twitter.com/bu7gFiCi1o
— NurseRoco (@bananabagbabe) February 28, 2022
I love this thread. real homes. real lives. Real disasters. Real love.
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