As parents, it is normal to want our children to have full confidence in us and to look to us whenever something worries them or makes them doubt. But that trust is not obtained overnight, and it is necessary to work from the beginning to obtain it.
It is known that the relationships between daughter-in-law and mother-in-law are not always harmonious or simple, and the title of "mother-in-law" is usually seen with negative overtones (something like what happens with the title of "stepmother").
Children learn thanks to their executive functions; that is to say, those that allow them to encode and integrate the information of their environment. Cognitive stimulation allows to stimulate these functions (memory, attention, language, planning, organization, reasoning ...).
According to experts, children begin to indicate around 10 months of life. It is a natural process, which is part of their social and communicative development. However, we can also accompany them in this process and stimulate it, especially if we have detected that they have not yet indicated.
Fortunately, times have changed and we have proven that the father's role in parenting is very important for both mother and baby from minute one. Fortunately for everyone, behind are the times when he was a mere spectator (and sometimes not even that), in the intense and difficult first weeks of his son.
Have you ever felt so comfortable, comfortable or focused doing an activity that the fact that it came to an end has bothered you? It also happens to young children, although with greater intensity than to adults, since their attachment relationships with people and places are more emotional.
When we get carried away by the avalanche of routine, especially when we are parents, sometimes we forget the value of words. In a moment of fatigue or frustration, we may come to say things that we would not normally say ... words that in fact we would never say to someone for whom we have respect. More often than I would like to, I hear phrases like "You're a bore!" "Look how heavy you are!" or "Don't be heavy!" I think we have normalized it so much that we have come to trivialize about the consequences that using them can have with our children.
Danni Büchner is invited to Sam Dylan's Halloween party. But the "Goodbye Germany" emigrant has no desire for many other party guests. And find clear words.
