Those of us who have small children at home know that having an impeccable and magazine-worthy house 24/7 is practically... impossible. And it is that although we strive to be organized and put into practice good strategies to maintain order at home, the truth is that as long as there are babies or small children at home, there will be times when it seems that a hurricane passed through our living room or dining room .
Having children, as I have said on multiple occasions, is a highly complex life experience. On the one hand, it is full of incredible moments and learning alongside our children, while on the other hand, being parents is also something that frequently puts us to the test.
Having children, as I have said on multiple occasions, is a highly complex life experience. On the one hand, it is full of incredible moments and learning alongside our children, while on the other hand, being parents is also something that frequently puts us to the test.
Although as mothers and fathers, in general, we always try to seek the best for our children, sometimes unconsciously or involuntarily we reproduce toxic parenting behaviors that should be avoided.
When we get carried away by the avalanche of routine, especially when we are parents, sometimes we forget the value of words. In a moment of fatigue or frustration, we may come to say things that we would not normally say ... words that in fact we would never say to someone for whom we have respect. More often than I would like to, I hear phrases like "You're a bore!" "Look how heavy you are!" or "Don't be heavy!" I think we have normalized it so much that we have come to trivialize about the consequences that using them can have with our children.
Without a doubt, one of the most beautiful parts of childhood is that amazement and innocence that little ones have. We love to see how they get excited about the simplest things in life, giving us an opportunity to learn a lot about them and understand what is really important.
Fortunately, more and more parents are involved in the upbringing and education of their children, something that brings important advantages both for the parents themselves, as well as for their partners and of course, for the baby.
Danni Büchner is invited to Sam Dylan's Halloween party. But the "Goodbye Germany" emigrant has no desire for many other party guests. And find clear words.
