There are toxic companions who do not give us anything positive. They are only detrimental to our existence and our progress as people. The truth is that relationships should satisfy us and help us become better people, not transform our existence into martyrdom. What personalities shouldn’t match?
A control freak with another control freak
This combination can be really explosive. Imagine two people obsessed with control and organization, whether in a professional or personal relationship. In both scenarios, although in the case of the couple’s relationship probably more palpable, both parties are so similar that they will fight to gain the power of that relationship (at work, productivity is only viable if they are not a team). In the event that neither gives in an iota, only frustration will remain and blaming the other for the failure of the relationship.
A liar and a narcissist
Two very characteristic personalities: on the one hand, an egocentric person, with a disproportionately positive idea of himself, and who relies heavily on his abilities even if they do not correspond to reality. Not very empathetic and in need of continuous praise from others. On the other hand, a liar; perhaps a born manipulator who enjoys lies. In the event of overt infidelity, the narcissist could react quite dangerously if he feels that he has been manipulated or taken advantage of. In all cases the outcome can be tragic.
A socio-psychopath and any person
According to the American psychologist Lillian Glass , socio-psychopaths are the most dangerous variant of all toxic people. Unable to apologize, they can also cause us harm and even threaten the lives of their victims. No matter what happens, they will never take any responsibility for what happened and they will try to squeeze everything they can out of you. If a normal, healthy person falls into the networks of a socio-psychopath, they are putting their physical and emotional well-being at risk.
A control freak and a passive-aggressive
Those with a strong personality, accustomed to carrying the rod of command in their social relationships as well as in their life, would form an unsuccessful team with a person with a passive-aggressive character. These tend to be calm as they build up inner rage. They will not show aggressiveness until they explode: when they are unable to bear more negative charge, they will expel it all at once. This confrontation cannot end well for either side.
An anodyne person and an arrogant one
We can perfectly frame it in what is known as Cinderella syndrome . The Cinderella complex or syndrome is characterized by the desire for a prince charming to appear ‘by magic’ in her life to keep her away from complications and be happy with what he offers her, in relation to the children’s fairy tale . Thus, in this case, a woman with a rather weak personality will appear insecure and annulled in the face of this so-called ‘prince charming’ who is exhibited as an arrogant, presumptuous person, overconfident and financially well endowed. Despite what it may seem, it is one of the most common toxic partner combinations.
