For the man to accompany the woman when she is going to give birth, and if it is not the partner, another companion, is an act whose benefit is beyond dispute: the woman is accompanied by someone who is trustworthy and close, who supports her in everything. moment.
More and more parents are starting on the path of Positive Discipline to educate their children with kindness and firmness at the same time. But, is it possible to apply Positive Discipline also with adults? And specifically in the case of the couple, how can Positive Discipline influence our relationship?
Raising and educating is exhausting and requires time and a lot of patience, something that we do not always have enough of. And it is precisely when patience is lacking and physical fatigue begins to take its toll, when conflicts arise with the person next to us. Sometimes these conflicts are verbalized in the form of arguments due to a lack of understanding, but at other times the door is simply opened to laziness, routine and lack of interest.
Neuroscience has been in charge of investigating how a woman's brain changes when she becomes a mother to take better care of the baby, developing more empathy and affectivity. Due to his growing involvement in raising children, science has wanted to find out if man's brain also changes and how it changes when he becomes a father.
None of the laws in force that regulate childcare leaves allow the transfer of maternity or paternity leave from one parent to another. The general rule is the prohibition, with only one exception: in the event of the death of the biological mother, the other parent can enjoy the leave that would have corresponded to her.
Although we are on the way to equal rights between genders and have made much progress in the workplace in recent years, recent surveys and studies suggest that mothers are the ones who are most involved in caring for children after birth, calling for a reduction in working hours, also work leave and, even, abandoning his professional career to dedicate himself exclusively to the family.
When we know that a baby is on the way, we do everything possible to prepare ourselves for the great adventure that we are about to begin. We start reading parenting books and blogs, and we prepare by buying all the things that we may need.
Becoming parents is a new path to explore that we all want to be as well prepared as possible. To achieve this, it is necessary to change to adapt to the needs of our children and help them initiate the bond even before birth and, above all, in the very first moments of life.
Danni Büchner is invited to Sam Dylan's Halloween party. But the "Goodbye Germany" emigrant has no desire for many other party guests. And find clear words.
