Transmitting values to our children is one of the most important responsibilities we have as parents. It is clear that the best way to do this is through example and living them on a daily basis, but when they are little, we can begin to reflect on them through books.
Transmitting values to our children is one of the most important responsibilities we have as parents. It is clear that the best way to do this is through example and living them on a daily basis, but when they are little, we can begin to reflect on them through books.
Gifts, commitments, meals, purchases, plans in style, more purchases ... it is likely that at this time we get carried away by situations and emotions that impact our children in multiple ways.
Social networks sometimes reveal moments that work perfectly as mirrors in which to reflect. This time it was thanks to Destiny Bennett, a 29-year-old...
There is a mental exercise that I do often since I am a mother and my daughters began to grow: I try to remember moments from my childhood and evaluate the feelings that they produced in me. Generally, the ones that come to light are those that gave me great joy or great sadness, and the latter have an element that is repeated a lot: they arose because of things that caused me concern.
The way we educate, or parenting style, influences the psychological and emotional development of our children. And it is that their well-being, their self-esteem and the way they have to bond, is built on the basis of education, love, limits, norms, support ...
When we get carried away by the avalanche of routine, especially when we are parents, sometimes we forget the value of words. In a moment of fatigue or frustration, we may come to say things that we would not normally say ... words that in fact we would never say to someone for whom we have respect. More often than I would like to, I hear phrases like "You're a bore!" "Look how heavy you are!" or "Don't be heavy!" I think we have normalized it so much that we have come to trivialize about the consequences that using them can have with our children.
The happiness of our children is the greatest goal we have as parents. Sometimes we believe that happiness is in great things, but the truth is that it is built on small customs that we acquire in our day to day life.
Danni Büchner is invited to Sam Dylan's Halloween party. But the "Goodbye Germany" emigrant has no desire for many other party guests. And find clear words.
