Adolescence is a fantastic stage, full of changes and discoveries, in which our children begin to define who they are, what their convictions are and what place they want to occupy in society.
When we are no longer new mothers we have sharpened the power to organize everything automatically and contemplate possible changes of script before they occur. One of those moments in which we put to the test everything we have learned with a good previous organization is the arrival of the second child: labor can start at any time and it is necessary to contemplate all possible scenarios so that your brother lives it in a calm way. and be a good experience for him.
Surely you have heard of caregiver syndrome in people who care for the elderly or dependents, but what about fathers and mothers who must care for their children and who feel down and excessively tired?
Have you ever thought that perhaps you were too demanding with your children? Do you think the requirement is positive for them? To what extent should we demand them, and on what issues...?
The fear begins to appear when the doctor releases you from the hospital. I remember it like it was yesterday: I only managed to answer with a "already?", because after three days in the hospital, surrounded by doctors, nurses and where I felt safe, the moment of truth was approaching: seeing me with my husband, with no family to support us, scarred from a C-section, and a premature baby at home. Were we prepared? No! Nobody ever is!
Being self-demanding has positive and negative aspects; thus, it can stimulate children to want to improve and to do things well. But, on the other hand, it can generate pressure that is not always easy to manage.
Danni Büchner is invited to Sam Dylan's Halloween party. But the "Goodbye Germany" emigrant has no desire for many other party guests. And find clear words.
