For many parents, including myself, the arrival of the first child turns your world upside down and it takes time to figure out how to organize with the baby: we sleep little, we rest less and things seem not to be where they are supposed to be. In short: our life becomes "a little bit" chaotic.
I am the mother of two children and, fortunately, the pregnancy of each of them passed without complications. But even so I am aware that I could not enjoy them as other mothers have told me they did. Although there were seven years of difference between them, both in one case and the other, and due to different circumstances, I worked until a few hours before delivery.
When it comes to thinking about a future as a family, many couples wonder what the ideal number of children is. Although many agree that two is the perfect number, that the traditional "typical family" is the most balanced, the truth is that there is no answer that works equally for all families.
As parents we always do our best to give the best to our children. We know that their training in the first years of life depends on us, so we try to educate them to be good people with a good heart. It is certainly not an easy job, but we do it with a lot of love.
When the first baby arrives, a universe full of "first moments" opens up for us that we want to keep on our retina, in cell phone memories, in cameras and in albums forever. However, when the second one arrives, it seems that the parents relax a bit with the subject (let's face it, we have less time and we are more tired), so we no longer go after the little one "capturing" everything he does. But what happens when the third arrives? A mother has decided to recreate it on TikTok in a simple way and apparently it has hit the nail on the head because it has quickly gone viral ...
From the moment we become pregnant, mothers usually put the concept of "guilt" in our emotional backpack, as if guilt and motherhood were an inseparable pairing.
A few days ago an acquaintance explained that at a time when she turned to pick up a diaper, the baby fell to the ground. Among a few of us we help them to get rid (a little) of the feeling of guilt because it has happened to many of us, badly that it weighs us down. It's that horrible day when your baby falls to the ground for the first time, hurts himself and you don't really know what to do.
Danni Büchner is invited to Sam Dylan's Halloween party. But the "Goodbye Germany" emigrant has no desire for many other party guests. And find clear words.
